I HAVE LEFT THE DEMI-MONDE

I have retired. Thank you for 15 years of connection and memories. I still pinch myself sometimes thinking of all the ways this career has afforded me to flourish. What a life changing opportunity it has been getting to meet so many men and women around the world, creating our own narratives around intimacy, traveling, learning and holding space together. My career in sex work taught me a lot about my autonomy, about womanhood, and about desire; but also about the ways we process loneliness and grief. Through sex work I have acquired the grit required to be a businesswoman, experienced the occasional heartbreak involved in entrepreneurship and how richly investing-in-oneself can pay off. In recent years, especially through the on-going pandemic, the most important takeaway for me has been learning how to shift directions; where to invest my time and energy and recognizing the quiet moment of when to walk away. So here I am at the height of my career, hanging it up. I will be taking these lessons with me into a whole new trajectory; moving abroad, starting a new venture and embracing a lifestyle of slow living and minimalism. You can follow along here if you like. If you and I ever got the chance, thanks for having chosen me to have spent a fleeting moment of time with. 

my website is locked. Admirers who would like access may wish me "good luck" by sending a retirement gift-card  of $100 after which you will receive the password to access my full website, the interview and all archived professional portfolios.

Contact my assistant for password after sending tribute.